02

Before the vows

It started like most arranged marriages in urban India do these days — casually, almost accidentally, over chai and family gossip.

Aarav had turned 31 a few months back. His mother had been dropping hints for ages: "Beta, all your friends have kids now... when will we get to hold our grandchild?" His father was more direct: "You're stable now. Time to think about settling down properly."

One Sunday evening, his mother came home from her kitty party with a spark in her eye. "I met Mrs. Sharma today — her daughter just finished her studies. Very cultured family, same gotra background, Bengaluru only. They have a daughter your age bracket. Shall I ask for the biodata?"

Aarav shrugged with a small smile. "Sure, Ma. Send it."

A week later, a simple biodata PDF arrived via WhatsApp: Ishaanvi Sharma. Photo — a soft, natural one in a salwar suit, smiling shyly at the camera. Education: MA Literature. Hobbies: reading, gardening, family time. Height: 5'3". No demands listed, just "simple, understanding life partner."

Aarav stared at the photo longer than he expected. Something about her eyes felt... calm. Kind.

His mother called the Sharmas that same evening. Polite formal talk — jobs, family values, expectations. Both sides liked what they heard.

Next step: horoscope matching. The families exchanged kundalis. An astrologer in Malleswaram checked them — 28 out of 36 guna match. "Very good compatibility," he declared. "Manglik dosha nil on both sides. Marriage will be harmonious."

That sealed it for the elders.

Two weeks later, the first meeting was arranged — neutral ground, a quiet family restaurant in Indiranagar on a Saturday afternoon. No big fuss, just the two families and the "kids."

Aarav arrived early, wearing a crisp light blue shirt and jeans — casual but neat. His heart was beating a little faster than usual. Not fear, just... curiosity mixed with nerves. *What if we have nothing in common? What if it's awkward?*

Ishaanvi came with her parents, in a simple pastel green kurti, dupatta draped modestly. She kept her eyes down as they entered, cheeks faintly pink. Her mother squeezed her hand reassuringly.

The families greeted each other warmly — hugs, namastes, "Arre, kitne saalon baad mile!" Small talk about traffic, weather, Bengaluru's changing face.

Then, as planned, the parents said, "Why don't you both sit at that corner table and chat for a bit? We'll be right here."

Suddenly, it was just them.

Aarav pulled out her chair like he'd practiced in his head. "Hi... Ishaanvi, right?"

She nodded, sitting down, finally looking up. "Yes. And you're Aarav."

Silence for two seconds — the classic awkward arranged-marriage pause.

He smiled gently. "This feels a bit weird, doesn't it? Like a job interview but... more important."

She laughed softly — a light, nervous sound that made his shoulders relax. "Exactly. My mom told me 'just be yourself.' But who even knows what that means right now?"

They both chuckled.

He asked first: "So... literature? What do you like reading?"

Her eyes lit up a little. "Classics mostly — Jane Austen, Tagore, some contemporary Indian authors. And you? Business must keep you busy."

"Very. But I read too — mostly non-fiction, biographies, some thrillers to unwind. Do you like traveling?"

"Yes! But mostly family trips. I want to see more places... maybe Europe someday."

"I go for work sometimes. Scandinavia is beautiful — cold, but peaceful."

They talked — halting at first, then easier. About favorite foods (both loved South Indian filter coffee and chaat), music (she liked old Bollywood melodies, he preferred indie and A.R. Rahman), dreams (she wanted a home full of laughter and books; he wanted balance between work and family life).

No grand confessions. No instant "this is the one." Just... comfortable. Real.

After 30 minutes, their parents called them back. "So? How was it?"

Ishaanvi glanced at Aarav quickly, then at her father. "It was... nice."

Aarav nodded. "Same. She's easy to talk to."

The families beamed.

In the car ride home, Ishaanvi's mother asked quietly, "Beta, kaisa laga?"

She blushed. "He's polite. Respectful. And... he listens. Really listens."

Aarav, on his drive back, thought: *She's sweet. Grounded. Not pretending to be someone else.*

That night, both families called each other.

"Yes, our side is okay."

"Yes, ours too."

Next meetings were planned — coffee dates (chaperoned at first, then alone), family dinners, more talks on phone.

Little by little, strangers became acquaintances.

Acquaintances became friends.

And friends... slowly, quietly... began falling in love.

But that's for the chapters ahead.

This was just the beginning — the arranged part.

The love part? That grew naturally, day by day, in the most ordinary, beautiful ways.

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